There's a guy who has been at my work since before I started (nearly 9 years ago). I liked him initially but he has gotten increasingly aggravating over the years that it makes me want to leave when he turns up for a job, or at least I go out of my way to avoid him. He is gay and very flamboyant, which is fine, but almost everything he says is a joke about him being gay. I've heard the same stuff over and over for nine years. Being gay is not funny
just stop plz.
That was tolerable enough though until a few years ago when suddenly he started making jokes about me being pregnant/having just been pregnant and now raising a couple of kids. I don't know why this started, we've never been close and there was never an incident or discussion where this could've come from. For a while I thought it was fat jokes, but then I lost weight and he has still been doing it. Last night example: "Lauren, you're pregnant. Drive home safe". The other night: "Oh I heard you were pregnant and now have two kids". WHY. I hate it so much seriously. If he gets the location next to me, my heart sinks and I just dread the moment he realises he can make another pregnancy joke.
He also does another thing (to everyone) like, "Oh Lauren I'm so not into you, you're not my type you know". LEAVE ME ALONE